In this episode, Michael Sherlock delves into Chapter Four of the Operation Fred series, titled “Mama Turns the Table.” Join us as Michael recounts her evolving relationship with Fred, the neighborhood stray cat, and the emotional journey that unfolds as she attempts to win Fred’s trust.
- Morning Rituals and Evolving Emotions:
Michael eagerly anticipates Fred’s daily breakfast visits, feeling like a kid on Christmas morning. Penelope joins the excitement, signaling Fred’s arrival with her meows. Michael’s growing frustration stems from Fred’s apparent lack of reciprocal affection, leading her to anthropomorphize Fred, desiring more than just Fred’s reliance on the food.
- Master Plan Unfolds:
On July 4, Michael decides to test Fred’s trust by changing the routine. Instead of immediately bringing out Fred’s food, Michael prepares a special setup: a cushion, coffee, and treats, placing Fred’s food farther away from the door to force him to come closer. Michael’s goal is to get Fred accustomed to her presence and potentially form a bond.
- Fred’s Hesitant Progress:
Fred initially reacts with confusion and caution. As Michael remains calm and patient, Fred gradually overcomes his fear, approaching the food despite the unusual setup. Fred’s hunger drives him to tolerate Michael’s presence, and he eventually begins to eat while Michael sips coffee and moves slowly.
The strategy works—Fred eventually moves closer, cautiously eating while Michael stays still and calm. Michael’s patience pays off as Fred starts to feel more secure, and even begins to relax on the porch.
- Building Trust and Bonding:
As Fred becomes more comfortable, he starts to eat more slowly and even relaxes on the porch, demonstrating a newfound trust. Michael engages Fred in a game of tossing treats, further strengthening their connection. Despite mosquitoes and discomfort, Michael persists, deeply moved by the experience and feeling a profound connection with Fred. This moment becomes emotionally significant for Michael, who draws parallels to her previous experiences with handfeeding dolphins in Australia.
- Plans for Integration and Internal Conflict:
Michael reflects on the success of the morning and plans to integrate Fred into their home. However, she faces internal conflict, fearing that changes might drive Fred away, reminiscent of past difficulties with her son. Despite Jeff’s reassurances, Michael feels the pressure of ensuring Fred’s safety and wellbeing, given upcoming work trips.
Key Takeaways:
Building trust with a wary animal takes patience, creativity, and consistency.
Emotional connections can form in unexpected ways, deepening our understanding of both ourselves and the animals we interact with.
The experience of caring for an animal can evoke powerful, reflective moments akin to other profound life experiences.
Catch us next time for another episode of the Shock Your Potential Podcast!
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Who is Michael Sherlock?
Don’t be fooled by the name, the hair color, or crazy shoes. Michael Sherlock is serious about business. She is dedicated to creating positive, productive, and profitable workplaces, and helping individuals and businesses unlock their ultimate potential.
Before launching her global training company, “Shock Your Potential”, Michael was Vice President of US Sales for two multi-national medical device companies, responsible for net revenue exceeding $75 million and as many as 500 employees at a time. Michael has been referenced in Forbes, quoted in Yahoo Finance and is a frequent media expert concerning hiring and employee management on local and national news outlets such as 6ABC in Philadelphia, ABC 13 in Houston, Daily Blast Live, and more.
Michael is a two-time best-selling author and recently released her third book, in a totally unique format, Operation Fred – What a Street Cat Taught Me About Leadership. Her fourth book, The Enlightened Workplace will be released in 2025.
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Have you met Fred? Buckle up for an adventure with Fred, the feline friend who’s here to show you how leadership, friendship, and life lessons can be as delightful as a catnap in a sunbeam!
Welcome to Operation Fred—an online book bursting with 25 chapters of feline wisdom and fun. Each chapter is a purr-fectly crafted tale paired with a leadership and life lesson that will leave you purring for more.
Curious about what Fred has to share? Dive into Chapter One and Lesson One, now available on our website. Link: https://thefredchronicles.com/about-fred/
Get ready to be whisked away into a world where business smarts meet cat charm!
Learn more: https://thefredchronicles.com/
Get ready to be whisked away into a world where business smarts meet cat charm!
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